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Published : November 25, 2008 |
Author : alam21
Category : Parenting | Total Views
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Children love the family members and other people differently. The love for each person has different levels. The love for mother usually has the highest intensity. The love for father comes next. The other members of the family enjoy the love of the child at different levels. The people who are outside the family members are evaluated by the children according to the impression they get from them. The children have an amazing capability for knowing people according to their instincts. From the looks and the behaviours of other people they realise how much they could be trusted.
The children develop their level of attachment to other people according to the trust they get from other people. The children usually do not have any information about other people. They evaluate other people by the way they look, the way they carry themselves and the way they perceive the world. Nobody can recognise the goodness and badness of a person like a child. The child has a tool in himself that measures love and fear. They also understand the level of risk that may come from other people. They are quite accurate in understanding the level of risk.
They do not feel any fear from good people. They do not trust the bad people just because of their instincts for survival. The children are expert in feeling the vibrations that are exuded from other people. Every person carries with himself some energy. The being of each person is full of energy that vibrates positive vibrations or negative vibrations. The children immediately feel both positive vibrations and negative vibrations.
The negative vibrations generate defensive instincts in all people but in children more than usual. The adults judge other people according to the knowledge on those people. The children judge other people by the energy that they vibrate. The vibrations are felt immediately and they are manifested in the physical and non-verbal actions. The children feel and react. They do not judge. They just feel and act and react. The feelings and actions are created by the person they see. They do not have usually previous experience of these people.
The previous experiences in new encounters are either reinforced by new impressions or modified. This depends on the person who carries with him his energy source for action and reaction. Most of the people are not aware about the impression they give to other people. They think they are positive and optimistic and they carry good energy and good feelings with themselves whenever they go. In most of the cases this is not true. People can not conceal the kind of vibrations which are in their ego. This is not in their power. The adults usually judge to the circumstances of a person: he had a fight with his colleague or a partner or he had an accident and so force. The children evaluate them immediately according to the energy that they depart.
Your energy attracts or rejects people.
Reza Hossein Borr is an NLP Master Trainer and a leadership consultant and the creator of 150 CDs and 14 Change management models. He is also the author of Manual Success, Manual of Coaching and Mentoring, Motivational Stories that Can Change Your Life, and a New Vision for the Islamic World. He can be contacted by email: sarawani@aol.com |
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The children exhibit their feelings in their emotional states. As they have criteria within themselves for how to perceive different things, they also have their own way of measuring different feelings and show them in their hierarchy of feelings. The hierarchy of the feelings is measured by the intensity of the feelings. The intensity of the feeling is exhibited in the voices and physical movements and non-verbal gestures. The hierarchy of feelings is demonstrated more when the children do not like something. It is pain and what generates pain that children unconsciously and naturally exhibit in their behaviours and try to avoid them. |
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