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Published : November 27, 2008 |
Author : alam21
Category : Success | Total Views
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How to cultivate a culture of success?
Reza Hossein Borr
I wish my past was as beautiful as I can imagine today, but now, that it is not, I live today so beautifully that my history of today becomes as beautiful as I want it tomorrow.
All those who lost regularly had the motivation to do it once more and they became the winners and looked like they have never lost before. Winning and success compensate for the all losses of the past. Even people forget what kind of loser was the person before he became a winner. It is winning that matters most after most failures. It is the nature of success and winning that begin with failure and loss. Those who make it big the first time are very rare. Those who make it big even after few failures are rare. Those who have made it unwarrantedly big are those who have lost many times before.
This does not mean that you have to expect of yourself failing any time that you started a new project. The outcome of a new project must begin with 100% faith in success while knowing that the outcome might not be the same which was desired. Winning has different levels. If a politician wants to run for an election, he has already won the votes of many people even though those votes may not be more than the other side. In fact both sides have won. Only one side won more. This proves that the person has some popularity among some people and what he needs to do the next time is to have more popularity among more people.
When some young men participate in Olympic contests they have already won certain level of victory. Anyway, the first winner is the one who wins more points. Some people believe that unless you have scored the highest points you may not be considered as the winner. This may be true mostly in sports. The champion belt goes around the waist of the person who scored more points. But the fact that the other side goes in the field and shows his capability for competition also shows his attitude and determination for winning.
The winners become winners in competition with others. Only if someone is better than them, the person will win. We must always look at the level of skills, determination and preparations that the other side accumulates to win. If the other side makes more preparations; off course he has more chance of succeeding. This does not mean that you cannot make the same level of preparations or even more for the next time. Some people may believe that there is no next time. If you believe so, there will be no next time but if you believe that there is a next time then you will have another chance.
Every winner that we know has a history of failures before he becomes a winner. We know that they did not sit on their failures and consumed their energies regretting over what happened. What they did was they sat down and thought how they can use this experience as the source of winning next time. The experience did not hold them back but it pushed them forward with more determinations. Sometimes when people lose, especially the children, they make a general decision that that will be the fate of everything that they will do in future. That failing experience makes them fail themselves in the future. Their history becomes their end.
I have never allowed my history to fail my future. My present and future are too important to me to allow them to become the target of failed experiences. I am here to get things done, to make things happen, to go forward, to shed light in darkness, to build roads that lead me and thousands of other people to beautiful and promising destinations. When I have such a great vision for myself, I would never allow history, difficulties, difficult people, disappointing situations and lack of resources to stop me from doing all those beautiful things that I was born to do.
I am my own lord. I am my own God. I am my own decision-maker. I can make anything happen. This is my destiny.
Reza Hossein Borr is an NLP Master Trainer and a leadership consultant and the creator of 150 CDs and 14 Change management models. He is also the author of Manual Success, Manual of Coaching and Mentoring, Motivational Stories that Can Change Your Life, and a New Vision for the Islamic World. He can be contacted by email: sarawani@aol.com |
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