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Published : November 25, 2008 |
Author : alam21
Category : Children | Total Views
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Parenting: Children and Love
Vibrations determine how people deal with each other.
The good thing is that people cannot control the energy they depart and therefore, they leave a trace for those people who want to know them. The children check their instincts immediately after they see somebody. It is told that the first impression is the last impression. This is not the case all the time. Sometimes people get training on how to make the first impression and therefore they disguise their true being. The coached people learn how to present themselves in different circles.
They usually conceal a lot of dark sides of the people and reveal only the good side of the character. This is why some of the paedophiles are able to deceive the children by gaining their trust. They coach themselves in a way to be trusted by children. Even in these cases the children have a sense of alert. What make them vulnerable are the extra measures these sick people take in order to gain their trust.
What is important for parents, coaches, teachers or a trainer is to understand the level of love the children have for different people including the family members. Other people may include the role models that somehow they have tried to copy during years. As the children grow up they also change their criteria for finding role models. The role models are not usually permanent. They are selected according to the instincts of the children for a short while and then they would be abandoned as they grow little bit older and develop different tastes. What makes the children change their role models are those things that they interact with everyday. They get new information and new information trigger new ideas, feelings and new beliefs. The new impressions take the child to a new level and make them change what they love and also the role models. What the children love and like now are possibly things that will not be loved in few years later. The new things in the life of the children bring new values and new pleasures and pains. They become more reflective and they begin to think.
When the thinking begins a new level of development also begins in the children. The children combine the thinking and their feelings to evaluate what they face. Those people, who have long-lasting affect on the children positively or negatively, can become very important in identifying the purpose for the child. If the person is loved by the child on a long-term basis somehow the purpose could be associated with the love for the person. The other side is also true; if your child gets long-lasting negative impressions from one person, that impression could be related somehow to the development of the purpose of the children.
Other people can make a difference in the children and the children use their impressions to evaluate the world they live in. They feel love and respond by doing what is required of them.
Nothing like love can affect the nurturing relationships between children and parents.
Reza Hossein Borr is an NLP Master Trainer and a leadership consultant and the creator of 150 CDs and 14 Change management models. He is also the author of Manual Success, Manual of Coaching and Mentoring, Motivational Stories that Can Change Your Life, and a New Vision for the Islamic World. He can be contacted by email: sarawani@aol.com |
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